Introduction

I guess this is where I explain what this bloggity-blog is all about.

It is about going through it. Getting over it. And getting past it.

NOW. This is by no means a "self help" blog... more of a "selfish help" space. I am writing this for my benefit, and your amusement. HOWEVER. Any insight or comic commentary is helpful, accepted and appreciated.

I guess now I should explain the "it" that I am going through, and wanting to get over and get past.

I, reader(s), have been dumped (for a second time... by the same man). Save your tsk-tsk-tsk for another entry. Since this is the INTRODUCTION blog, you get the back story, the meat of the matter... then you can start going for my throat, and telling me what and idiot I am. There is another blog, a precursor if you will, that details the first half of our relationship ( The Swiss Miss Chronicles ).

I can cliff notes the rest of it for you as follows:
a) broke up last Feb. 15 (I know, super awesome that 1. he dumped me the day after Valentine's Day and 2. got back together with him even though he dumped me on of the day after Valentine's Day)
b) got back together March/April
c) had a very up and down relationship from then till December

And from there it is a very knotted and emotional mess... December sucked.

Which puts me where I am now... 5 days into the new year, reeling from a broken heart, left licking my wounds.

I am left with questions, that I did hear answers (confusing and unsatisfactory answers) and a wealth of insight from the other side of the relationship (every story has two sides, blah blah blah).
BUT... THIS is not about the other side of a relationship.

I mean really, as we (women, mostly I assume) go through a tremendous break up we don't sit around comparing sides of the story. NO. We go through every move we made, and the reaction it got. We go through the dialogue. We go through our feelings. We try to adjust our footing based on our perception of the reality we are in (ohhhhhhhh all matrix-y). And why do we do this? Because it is is all you can do.

Which brings me to my departure and a preview of the next blog.

WHAT CAN YOU DO?